FOR MY SINGLE LADIES! YOUR ONLINE DATING PROFILE PICTURE: HOW TO BE IRRESISTIBLE… According to one study that analyzed 4000 dating profile pages, if you want men to flock to you, if you want to significantly increase the number of messages you get sent…
— TAKE A FULL BODY SELFIE – most flattering options include holding the camera slightly above you and turning your body at a three quarter angle to the camera. If you have a “best side” (everybody does!) cheat that towards the camera with your 3/4 angle and don’t have anyone else in the shot with you (the study found having company in the shots reduces the number of messages you get).
And of course you can put more clothes on that I have in this photo – Carnival Costume optional 🙂
love,
Kara
The Lifestylista
xox
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Love & Relationships
Are you letting love wait? Sometimes it's only when the love is lost that we miss it! :-(
Vote “yes” or “no” COMMENT BELOW! Who do you secretly love? Who have you NOT called or texted or emailed this Holiday season? Which one of your family, friends – old and new – or even a potential new love interest..? 😉 Don’t let it wait. Make your move. After all the presents, all the good food, we start to see what this holiday season is really about… PEOPLE! Don’t let this love for these people be something you miss later – nurture it, help it to grow and do a little happy dance! Even if you only touch base with them once a year, it’s touching base all the same. And while we’re not that subject… I’m no angel when it comes to this! This Christmas I haven’t sent cards (or even texts or emails on Christmas day – was sick with flu, in bed sneezing and coughing 🙂
I love you,
Kara
The Lifestylista
xox
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Do YOU secretly feel you're "nothing special"? Do you keep thinking that "if things were different" you would be more lovable / special?
Hey you! BE HONEST – VOTE “yes” or “no”, COMMENT below. SHARE WITH YOUR LIFESTYLISTA SISTERS! Is there anyone you love who treats you like you’re ordinary? Do YOU secretly feel you’re “nothing special”? Do you keep thinking that “if things were different” (e.g. if you were “x pounds lighter” / better dressed / richer / more popular / better educated) that you would be more lovable / special?
I love you right now by the way!
love,
Kara
The Lifestylista
xox
#BeautifulAsYouAre
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Look at the lives of the 5 people you spend the most time with…
Happy Friday girl!!! VOTE ‘yes’ or ‘no’. COMMENT below and BE HONEST… What is your group of friends like? Want to know what your life will be like (health, career etc.)? Look at the lives of the 5 people you spend the most time with. “If you hang out with chickens you’re going to cluck. If you hang out with eagles you’re going to fly.” DO YOU AGREE OR DISAGREE?
Have a great day! I’m here rooting for you.
Kara
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xox
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WANT TO FEEL SEXY AGAIN? Make him crave you again #Boyfriend #Marriage #Relationships
Are things not quite the way they were with you and your other half? Are you stuck in a rut? Check out this VIDEO OF ME AND MY HUBBY. After 10 years of marriage… So many of you have written me about this, I have to reply. YOU WANT TO FEEL SEXY AGAIN!
1) DRAW HIM TO YOU WITH A SMALL BUT EYE-CATCHING CHANGE…
Men thrive on variety when it comes to attraction.
Spice up your look and put a spring in your step. Add a bit of new-ness to keep things fresh and reawaken his desire.
– Go bra-less (I’m not kidding)
– Wear higher heels
– Change your hairstyle
– If you normally dress sensibly, sashay around in a short skirt
You are not predictable, safe, wifey – you are a hot temptress, girl and don’t you forget it (and don’t let him forget it either)
2) DON’T DROWN HIM IN DETAIL
You know us ladies. A man asks us what happened in our day and we are telling him everything from the sweet potato we had with our lunch to what our ‘nemesis’ said today at work – word for word!
Though we want to stay connected, the more detail we give him, the more bored & distracted he’ll get… The less he wants to know! Psychologists suggest that men can’t handle that kind of detail and that explains why they tend not to give us that kind of detailed, line by line explanation of their day.
So try this instead:
Him: How was your day?
Us: Great my love. Nothing much happened. I went for a drink with Sandra and Lola.
Him: Really? Tell me more.
Instead of hitting him with a wall of information, let him ask you questions. Then he’ll be more interested in it too.
3) GIVE HIM SOME SPACE
Don’t always get all up in his grill. Give him space. Have a life of your own. Let him miss you. And maintain some mystery too. It may sound old fashioned but… if what you’re doing now isn’t working for you it might be worth giving this a try!
4) NOTICE WHAT HE DOES WELL
A genuine compliment from you will go a loooooong way to making your man feel seen by you and to feel truly acknowledged.
So often, we ask ourselves if he notices us, if he thinks we are attractive, if he notices all we do for him BUT he’s asking himself the same thing. He just may not ask us for it.
Instead of just hoping to ‘get’ this kind of appreciation from him, let’s give too.
5) GIVE HIM A FLASHBACK
Makes me blush just writing this. Remember when you guys met and just the sight of each other would send you into a heart palpitation fest..? LUST! There are certain smells, tastes, sounds and visuals that can take you straight back there.
That sexy cologne he used to wear, that curry you used to cook, that old school Usher track (LOL) – oooooooh! If you want to take him back to a time he absolutely had to have you… Use his senses to take him back there.
Wear that perfume you used to wear (smell is a big one – it’s one of our most primal senses and it can induce an immediate emotional reaction), play the music, go and visit that place you used to make out… Have fun with this. Use your imagination.
Girl, I don’t need to tell you anymore. You’ve got this!
I’m here rooting for you!
love,
The Lifestylista
xox
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What will it take for you to have a gorgeous fulfilling day?
Go on girl have a great day! I love you and I want you to have a fun & HUGELY fulfilling day. What’s the one thing you need to do today to make that happen? Love Kara
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