Hi – I’m Kara “KJ” Miller and welcome to The Lifestylista. This is the place where ladies over 35 come to get their groove back.
I teach you practical, real world, effective tools that you can use at every stage of dating… From that first time you meet that special man to the lasting, life-long, wonderful committed relationship you’ve been dreaming of.
Highly effective tips to help you MEET the best men, secret communication hacks for your FIRST DATE that’ll almost guarantee a second date, little known authentic strategies to move the right relationship from totally casual to TOTALLY COMMITTED. And then, once you’ve done that, a system for creating and nurturing a LOVING RELATIONSHIP THAT LASTS.
I will teach you how to truly become the high value woman you already are AND attract and keep the best, high value men. I will teach you how to make the amazing, loving, long term committed relationship you dream of… A reality.
I help women over 35 transform their dating lives by providing specific insights, tools, tips and scripts you can use *right now* to find, attract and keep the high quality, high value, man you deserve.
And by high value, I mean a man who has integrity, he keeps his word – small promises and big ones. He’s looking for a committed relationship. He’s interested in you and listens to you and wants to invest in a relationship with you. He wants to see you be your best and is willing and able to hold you accountable. This is the kind of guy you’ve been looking for but right now you’re not sure you’ll ever find!]
Now I’ve created a revolution in dating that allows you to date in a way that empowers you, that doesn’t involve game playing or settling or having a wall around your heart and pretending to be something you’re not! Those old strategies didn’t get us anywhere did they?!
This is an inside / out method that isn’t just you learning a load of rules. You’ve got to be real. And true to yourself. That’s the only way you’ll be happy longterm and also be able to attract and keep your Mr Wonderful when he comes along.
The more you know about yourself, the better your relationships are. You’ve got to get your relationship with YOURSELF right first. Before any other relationship can work. To attract the high value man you want, you must be truly in love with yourself!
You learn step-by-step how to become a high value woman who communicates your standards in a way that is, not only honest, but also totally irresistible to high value men. You get your self respect and your dignity back. And you learn how to put your needs first instead of just ignoring them in order to man-please.
You also learn how to let a man go when you realize that he’s a player OR not that into you OR simply can’t give you what you need… Your shift in mindset allows you to do this early on before you get too attached to him.
It also allows you to be compassionate with yourself – you won’t always get it right and that’s OK! There’s a Caribbean expression, “What doan kill does fatten…” So even things that hurt us, help us if we learn from them!
You can do this! You can have the relationship and the life you deserve.
I’m here rooting for you!