HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS…
SHARE YOUR BEST TIPS IN THE COMMENT BOX BELOW & TELL US WHAT FRIENDSHIP MEANS TO YOU
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Friends are important – the good ones can give you fun, joy, support, a team, encouragement… And when you’re losing weight and getting healthy, having that support is key. And give support too – lift up your whole peer group.
I’m here rooting for you!
love,
The Lifestylista
xox
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Check out my new friend Scola Dondo! She's only 17 years old and she lost 50 pounds.
My new friend Scola Dondo is just wonderful. Here story is inspiring (she’s only 17 years old and she lost 50 pounds) and she is sooooo much fun too! http://www.youtube.com/user/StrawberryRipples
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The Lifestylista
xox
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HOW TO #POSE FOR #PHOTOS? Here's a SECRET CELEB #POSE that works every time… the 'three quarters' 3/4!
So don’t stand with the bottom half of your body straight on, facing the camera. And don’t stand sideways either. Do a halfway house between the two – three quarters! Then look directly to camera. You not only look slimmer but the angles the camera will find on your face are invariably more flattering. In fact, when doing this pose, it’s hard not to feel like you’re being shot on the red carpet itself. It works! Try it! Here’s a photo of me at an event doing it!
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The Lifestylista
xox
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"SCREW YOU! Yes you! WHY BOTHER EVEN TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT? YOU KNOW IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. NOT FOR YOU…"
The way you think about yourself and your weight loss makes all the difference between whether you lose weight and keep it off for good OR whether you just sit there getting more and more confused, sad, ashamed and angry… at yourself.
I have read your messages – the private Facebook ones and the ones on the wall and I have a lump in my throat – feel I want to cry because so many of you don’t feel there is any hope. Not for you. I can hear and feel the pain you are in.
First thing to say is that YOU ARE NOT YOUR WEIGHT. You are not a number on scale. You are a lovable, amazing, beautiful human being NO MATTER WHAT SIZE YOU ARE and no matter who does or doesn’t love you because of your size. And that includes you. Screw you with all your judgements about your body and your ‘double chin’ and your ‘fat belly’ and your ‘big thighs’ and ‘does your butt look too big?’! If anyone else spoke to you like that, you’d want to slap them in the face but the hatred and the anger you direct at yourself sometimes… GRRRRRRRR!!!!! I want to come over there and shake you and then hug you and then shake you again. (And then hug you again and cry with you).
Self hate and being defeated before you start is not working for you and it never will. I’ve been there too. I did not understand what was happening to me. I thought my clothes were shrinking in the wash and I really couldn’t understand where my double chin had suddenly come from.
Honestly, if I could lose the weight and transform my health and my life… I know you can.
We’re on the beginning of a journey together. You can do this.
I’m working on a course that’ll help you to transform the way you see yourself and release the weight for good. Stay tuned.
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I love you and I’m here rooting for you! With all my heart girl!
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xox
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"HELP! I'VE RUINED MY DIET AND NOW I HATE MYSELF!"
Lots of you have written in with just this issue. HEALTHY SKINNY PEOPLE DON’T THINK LIKE THAT! It’s not ‘black or white’ / ‘saint or sinner’ for them. Many slim people may eat some ‘play food’ BUT they eat it in moderation. Let this information free you! BE STILL AND KNOW GIRL… You are lovable and fabulous no matter what your weight is!
What you’ve got is a case of an ‘everything or nothing’ way of thinking. So many of us ladies think that _unless we eat ‘perfectly’ all the time_ then we’re ‘bad’ and that we’ll never succeed and so we might as well give up…
BUT
It’s not the square or two of chocolate that’ll “ruin your diet”.
What is really ruining things is your idea that if you deviate even a little bit from your ‘perfect eating’ then you might as well eat a mountain of the ‘bad stuff’. It’s like breaking one plate in a set of plates and then because one plate is broken, you break them all!!! Crazy huh? Well we ladies can get cray cray when it comes to weight and eating!
Here’s an exercise for you: the next time you feel that way, like you’ve ‘ruined your diet’. Say to yourself, “Wow, I’ve eaten some ‘play food’ like a skinny person would. And just like a skinny person, I’m going to eat it in moderation. I haven’t ruined a damned thing baby!”
Actively change the way you speak to yourself.
e.g.
“If I have one bite of that ice cream, I’ll have to eat the whole tub!”
vs
“I am going to have 3 bites of it and I’m going to eat it slowly and mindfully. I’m really going to savor it – looks, taste, smell, texture… wonderful. I’m going to really enjoy it AND put the rest away.”
Go to http://www.TheLifestylista.com and search for my articles:
— “FEELING STRESSED AND WANT TO OVEREAT???” – there’s a GREAT BREATHING TECHNIQUE here that fights cravings…
— Dieting’s dirty little secret – the scientific truths behind WHY DIETS MAKE YOU FAT!
I am here rooting for you girl! You can so do this.
love,
The Lifestylista
xox
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