Iyanla to Women SHARING a father of 34 kids: We’re Creating the “Penis Between Us” Iyanla: Fix My Life Oprah Winfrey Network

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OWN: “Iyanla’s session with Jay, the father of 34 children with 17 women, she got to know some of the mothers of his children. Now, Iyanla sits down with four of these womenAisha, Chantau, Charmaine and Ayannafor a healing conversation that all women need to hear.

“We as women [are] surrendering our power and creating the penis between us,” Iyanla says. “I mean a penis between us as women, friends. A penis between us, between us and our dignity.”Iyanla says many women settle for men who can’t even meet basic criteria, and then, some bring children into these kinds of relationships. Watch as Iyanla helps audience members release their shame and guilt by addressing why they allowed these men into their lives in the first

Popular self-help series, Iyanla: Fix My Life, bestselling author, spiritual life coach and television host Iyanla Vanzant goes behind closed doors to help people whose relationships and lives have broken Winfrey Network is the first and only network named for, and inspired by, a single iconic leader. Oprah Winfrey’s heart and creative instincts inform the brand — and the magnetism of the provides leadership in programming and attracts superstar talent to join her in primetime, building a global community of like-minded viewers and leading that community to connect on social media and beyond. OWN is a singular destination on cable.”